Love is the common emotion of a man. Now a days it is the most familiar and popular subject in every family. Now Parents remain very anxious for their child for the adverse effect of love. Though love is universal and it is the familiar abstract that means fair and good. But love is the phenomenon in epidemic form. Love is nice which means co-operation, heart combination and refreshment of mind. Our oldest are tensed about the meaning of love. They believe love means injustice, illegal relation and naked activities etc. Believe ness of the oldest about love is the main and most important problem of love. For this problem a family can’t support love. As a result family is destructing place day by day. The members of family are helpless and shelter less for love. Concept of love is old and its root is very deep. So concept about love is not flexible. Mutual believe, by born affection and blood relation are defeated by the power of love. Painful situation is fixed in both sides for love.                                          

Society is the unity of some family. Different kinds of family create a society. Society contains different kind of human. Every human is different for his/her behavior, habit and personal mind. Love is unique machine to change society. But love is prohibited by society. Society can’t contain love. Society leaders believe love is the way of illegal activities. It is the poison for destroying next generation. Love is brave. But society means this brave is the signal of war. Struggle is another name of love but society means struggle is the fashion in front of the oldest. So love is illegal in the eye of society. Love controls every man. Love is the main obstacle against injustice. This fundamental emotion refreshes every mind.

Some kinds of society create a country. Country is the coat of a person. A person moves his activities according to country law. A country paves the way of justice and fairness. The administration of a country removes the bad things and bad behavior of a man. Every man must obey the civic rules of a country. So a country gives the legal ness of love. Love can create a country fair and crime free. A criminal births a cruel environment. He/she continues his/her boyhood through cruel environment. As a result he/she becomes a criminal. Only love can create a peaceful environment. Love gives a crime less society. To remove the violence, crime and sex crime love give a safe living place. But country doesn’t give the certificate of love. Love is bad and it is the indirect cause of destruction. Civic rules give the example of Troy city. But Helen’s love is not pure love. As a result combination of Hectors family and Helen family bring destruction.  Love is the only way of creating peaceful and fruitful living place.

World is directed by some powerful organization. Actually, world is directed by some powerful country. Every country is different for its several laws and religious rules. So many countries prefer free sex. But they don’t realize the real meaning of love. Love is universal. It has a special dignity. World can’t give the proper respect of love.              

Pilling is the system of birth control. It destroys the probability of birthing temporary. Birth control was started in 1914. In that time, birth control system was tablet based. Usually unsafe reaction brings pilling. It is the coat of birthing. It is the scientific process of birth control. Pilling is the bad result of all kinds of sexual emotion. On the other hand pilling is the protective course of enjoyment. Pilling is the pre-condition to enjoy myself. Sexual demand is the most fundamental demand of life. To perform this demand freely, pilling plays a vital role. Pilling gives mental freshness to enjoy free sex.

There are many kinds of pilling tablet are available in drug market. Likes Femecon, Nordet28, and Somaject e.t.c.  Though, Somaject is injection. Different kinds of tablet have made for different situation.  Pilling is the temporary system of birth control. It is not wash system in present time birth control system or pilling system is the more researchable matter in whole over the world. It is the exceptional treatment for women. Chemical treatment has side effects. On the other hand, herbal treatment is safe for women. To think about this, Dr. Bremner is the teacher of school of life science in Emory University in U.S.A. He writes combination of honey, ghee, seeds of palasa tree, rock salt are the herbal treatment of birth control.

Usually increasing consciousness and self-reliance of women are the main cause of taking birth control system. Educated women are not choosing lot of children. We know that, a family creates by husband and wife. To take children both husband and wife plays a vital role. They try hard and soul to design their family and to guide their children. But we live in developing country and maximum couple in our country is not educated. Our women are not cautious about their rights. They are victim for early mothering, lot of mothering and lot of marriage of their husband.

Though, woman leadership in our country is the most famous subject in the world. But women of our country oppressed in early age. The decision of taking children is the personal asset of husband. Though women are the essential part of birthing children however she is neglected about this matter. The husband society of our country only thinks about their demand. They think they are the earning member of family. So his decision is final. In this reason, husband society is not thinks about the misery of their wife. As maximum women in our country has no economic power. So they only obey their husband’s hard rule. Birth control system or pilling hardly reduces the misery women of society and more elaborate the independent of husband society.  

Birthing is the normal result of married life. Birthing announces of a new life. It creates a new chapter of life of a man. It’s the flow of generation. Ultimately birthing is the proper satisfaction of human life. A pair of human life feels proud to born a new life. A new married couple draws a dream for birthing a child. Scarcity of productivity is the matter of great sorrow. Sometimes, it is the cause of separation and destroys the happiness of a family. Birthing is the rhythm of a family and the most demand of couple. But the unplanned birth is not fruitful for man, family and country.

                                                   

Sex means one kind of forceful flow that contains reaction. Usually this kind of flow comes from attraction. So it is easy to realize that, attraction must be safe. A one moment attraction destroys one’s principle and morality. But this kind of attraction is controllable. It’s true that, only real education may control this. Because education teaches us, what is wrong? What is right? What is the difference between right and wrong? Now a-days educated persons are to blame for this kind of unsafe attraction. It has two causes, educated persons are not educated in real education or they are failure to realize the difference between right and wrong. Forceful or unsafe attraction flows to reaction. Sometimes this kind of reaction is essential. It is the universal truth that, it is the most important part of life. Actually sex is major demand of man. It is that kind of demand which satisfies immediately. A male satisfies female’s demand and a female satisfies male’s demand.

Sex is the pre-condition of birthing. To birth a child sex is essential. Generally sex rises to see the specific organ of body. Male are impressed females out look. Impression is the first condition of sex. Generally males are busy to create sexual relation from first impression. But female are passionate to create sexual relation. So our social culture prefers male sex but not female sex. Female’s demands are neglected in our society. Prostitute house offers male sex. Though male satisfies there demand with female. As a result female are gainers for money!

There are many sex elements in our society. Condom is the most popular sex control element. It is the coat of sex that control unexpected birth. Condom is the control item of HIV virus that is the most dangerous enemy of free sex. The free sex comforts the body and mind. But it creates problems in society and family. A family may destroy for free sex. If free sex is permitted from family then it may be normal. Now we live in millennium world and our mental themes are free from any kind of obstacle. So now we talk about the merits and demerits of free sex.

Generally frustration, unbelief and Scarcity of mutual understanding are the main cause of free sex. Sometimes failure ness and frustration brings free sex. Free sex can’t support the mind but free sex partners believe this is the shelter of mind. Free sex is the cause of HIV AIDS and many other sexual diseases. Though in present time, man are very cautious and educated about sexual diseases. When a man occur free sex then his/her mind is traveling and he/she contains one kind of fascination which is difficult to distillate but it is true that sex is essential. One kind of young in our society, believes free sex is the practice match of real life. To lead a happy life sex is must so to practice free sex is the pre-condition of happy life. A free sex partner can’t believe his/her life partner though his/her life partner is honest.
To create a happy life and happy society sex is essential. We should practice pure sex but not free sex because it is the alarming condition for health, mind, society and overall country.